A tender rose has only thorns for its defence. Similarly, the negativities in a wife are for her defence. If these were not there, then others, and maybe even the husband, could start exploiting her. Often the women get cheated or exploited by tricksters because women by nature are very gullible and believe anything that is told to them. One of the best ways to please your wife is to take the AVIV path: acknowledge her Virtues, Ignore her Vices. Every woman has plenty of virtues and a few vices. It is up to the husband to search and encourage the virtues. Generally, when we love someone, we tend to look for virtues and when we hate someone, we look for the vices. The same is applicable to her weaknesses too. We should only search for virtues in our wife, so as to love her whole heartedly; if you start searching for her shortcomings, you will lose interest in her.
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